[Disclaimer: this isn’t an article about male and female jobs because we all moved way beyond that long ago didn’t we..? Didn’t we…?] After decades of searching for a solution to anxiety, confusion and general ill-at-ease-ness, I came across something called (among...

Harry and Sally. A man and a woman, opposite in every way, on paper resolutely incompatible. To begin with they are unable to even be in the same room without arms folding, eyes rolling, doors slamming. Yet, as they get to know each other, it is obvious: they are...

There was a girl, let’s call her Everygirl, who thought that she wasn’t OK. She thought she was missing something. She felt lonely, scared, inadequate. She believed what she thought about who she was. She thought that there was something wrong with her. She thought...

There is a revolution underway that is changing every aspect of the way we understand reality and the way our minds create it. It is an ancient revolution because in the oldest cultural, religious, philosophical and academic texts from all over the world we find...

Have you thought recently how you don’t need anything? No me neither. In fact, I need a LOT of things. I need my health for a start. I need to be alive obviously. I need the people I love to be alive of course. And I need them to love me and to tell me they love me. I...

The definition of a vacuum is true empty space - an environment with nothing in it. It is the attempt to create a nothingness within the all pervasive somethingness of the universe. Nothing cannot exist in nature because nature immediately fills that nothing with...

My Facebook feed has been full of people promising to make me the best I can be - happier, wealthier, fitter, more attractive, more successful, more popular. They are coming to the right place because a lot of the time I believe I need to be better and have more. I...

The coaching I do is based on the principle that our reality is created from the inside out. That our moment to moment reality is thought brought alive in consciousness. That everything we experience, including ourself is only ever a creation within the changing...

I’m a coach. A life coach. I earn my living from helping people with their life. Which would be great. If I had the slightest idea what ‘life’ is. Because whatever way we look at it, the life we are living is an apparition, created from moment to moment within our...

When I was about ten, I had a joke book and in the book was this: ‘How do I get down from an elephant? And the answer was: ‘You don’t. You get down from a duck’. Bloody hell. That joke mystified me. I could not work it out. I asked my sister. It mystified her too. We...