Sometimes (often?) we look around us and think how much happier and more secure we would be if things were different. If we earned more money or were better with the money we have, if the kids were quieter or spent less time on the iPad, if the relatives were less...
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Only You.
First of all there is only me. And there is the world and the people that affect me. Here I am. Clare Dimond. And I have needs and wants that must be satisfied in order for me to be ok. I have preferences and desires and vulnerabilities. I am who I am and I go...
How are you doing?
There was a report out recently about the signs that a person is doing really well in life. It included things like reaching a high level in your job, being a high earner, being married, having children, keeping yourself fit, eating well, having a clear vision,...
Denial, delusion and don’t even go there
The coaching I do is based on the understanding that the reality we experience is an ever-changing projection of thought and that the only truth ultimately is that of the awareness of that experience, consciousness itself. And this gives rise to some big questions. ...
Let’s go all the way
You know how when things get started and it’s amazing and it carries on and it is even more amazing and you’re thinking ‘keep going’ and then suddenly it stops and you’re a bit, ‘…???’ You know that? That’s what we’re talking about today. And we’re talking about it in...
If I’m the entire creative power of the universe then why am I such a loser?
One of the phrases that comes up a lot in the coaching field is that we are the creative potential of the universe. I remember hearing this and feeling like the biggest loser on earth, actually make that… well… in the universe. I looked around at my life and...
How to change the world
There is only one way to change the world. There is only one way to change any other individual. There is only one way to change any system or address any issue or correct any injustice. There is only one way and it can happen in an instant or take a lifetime. The...
The commentary box
“And here she comes up on the left side. She’s had a bad season so she probably doesn't have it in her. Plus she’s been eating too many wispa bars and so she’s not going to even fit in the dress she bought for the event this weekend. AND she’s going to it on her own...
Doormat
I coach from the understanding that the reality we live in is a projection. That our entire experience of self, life, other and world is created in thought. This means there is nothing ‘out there’ there to deal with. There is just a creation from a state of...
‘Be Yourself!’ ‘OK but who the hell am I?’
Authenticity is a big buzz word. “Be yourself” we keep getting told. And that would be great of course… if we knew who we are. The more I coach people and the more I explore the nature of the self and reality and our understanding of ourselves, the clearer it is to me...










