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Only You. 

  First of all there is only me. And there is the world and the people that affect me.  Here I am. Clare Dimond. And I have needs and wants that must be satisfied in order for me to be ok. I have preferences and desires and vulnerabilities. I am who I am and I go...

How are you doing?

There was a report out recently about the signs that a person is doing really well in life.  It included things like reaching a high level in your job, being a high earner, being married, having children, keeping yourself fit, eating well, having a clear vision,...

Denial, delusion and don’t even go there

The coaching I do is based on the understanding that the reality we experience is an ever-changing projection of thought and that the only truth ultimately is that of the awareness of that experience, consciousness itself.  And this gives rise to some big questions. ...

Let’s go all the way

You know how when things get started and it’s amazing and it carries on and it is even more amazing and you’re thinking ‘keep going’ and then suddenly it stops and you’re a bit, ‘…???’ You know that? That’s what we’re talking about today. And we’re talking about it in...

How to change the world

There is only one way to change the world. There is only one way to change any other individual. There is only one way to change any system or address any issue or correct any injustice. There is only one way and it can happen in an instant or take a lifetime. The...

The commentary box

“And here she comes up on the left side. She’s had a bad season so she probably doesn't have it in her. Plus she’s been eating too many wispa bars and so she’s not going to even fit in the dress she bought for the event this weekend. AND she’s going to it on her own...

Doormat

  I coach from the understanding that the reality we live in is a projection. That our entire experience of self, life, other and world is created in thought. This means there is nothing ‘out there’ there to deal with.  There is just a creation from a state of mind....

‘Be Yourself!’ ‘OK but who the hell am I?’

Authenticity is a big buzz word. “Be yourself” we keep getting told. And that would be great of course… if we knew who we are. The more I coach people and the more I explore the nature of the self and reality and our understanding of ourselves, the clearer it is to me...

Who takes the bins out in your house?

[Disclaimer: this isn’t an article about male and female jobs because we all moved way beyond that long ago didn’t we..? Didn’t we…?] After decades of searching for a solution to anxiety, confusion and general ill-at-ease-ness, I came across something called (among...

When Perfect met Potential.

Harry and Sally. A man and a woman, opposite in every way, on paper resolutely incompatible. To begin with they are unable to even be in the same room without arms folding, eyes rolling, doors slamming. Yet, as they get to know each other, it is obvious: they are...

Thank you

There was a girl, let’s call her Everygirl, who thought that she wasn’t OK. She thought she was missing something. She felt lonely, scared, inadequate. She believed what she thought about who she was. She thought that there was something wrong with her. She thought...

Start Here with the Two Realisations That Make All the Difference

Start Here with the Two Realisations That Make All the Difference

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