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The dream job

I coach, write and teach from the understanding that the self, other people and the world we experience is a creation of perception, of limited, conditioned thought.  This means that we are essentially living in a dream. A dream in which there is no self or other or...

The self-assertion​ trap

The self assertion trap Have you ever thought you should be more assertive? In one of the companies I worked for there was a list of values that all employees were judged against in their performance reviews.  One of the values was ‘Edge’. That meant putting yourself...

Alive

  Conception. Experiences. Death.  Life. One experience after another. Transient, temporary, split second, fleeting experiences.  Depending entirely on how we understand the nature of those experiences and us as the experiencer, life can be hell on earth or the...

Simple life? Two steps

It seems that this heat is reducing life to a maximum of two.  Two words: ‘SO’ and ‘HOT’.  Two hairstyles: damp and scraped back or damp and hanging Two ways to be in the car: windows open, hot air blowing in or windows closed and air con blowing hot air in.  Two...

Yes. No.

The coaching I do is about seeing who we really are. We go through our lives believing we are this separate body, this identity, these choices, this life, these needs. But there is no substance, no realness to this. It is impermanent and subjective, a function of...

In this moment, are you a bottomless pit or the infinite source?

From moment to moment it is one or the other. In this moment, we are either focused on ourself with needs that must be met and emotions and experiences that must be sought or resisted. Fearful, anxious, insecure and needy. Trying to be ok now. Trying to make the...

The Other Side

Sometimes (often?) we look around us and think how much happier and more secure we would be if things were different. If we earned more money or were better with the money we have, if the kids were quieter or spent less time on the iPad, if the relatives were less...

Only You. 

  First of all there is only me. And there is the world and the people that affect me.  Here I am. Clare Dimond. And I have needs and wants that must be satisfied in order for me to be ok. I have preferences and desires and vulnerabilities. I am who I am and I go...

How are you doing?

There was a report out recently about the signs that a person is doing really well in life.  It included things like reaching a high level in your job, being a high earner, being married, having children, keeping yourself fit, eating well, having a clear vision,...

Denial, delusion and don’t even go there

The coaching I do is based on the understanding that the reality we experience is an ever-changing projection of thought and that the only truth ultimately is that of the awareness of that experience, consciousness itself.  And this gives rise to some big questions. ...

Let’s go all the way

You know how when things get started and it’s amazing and it carries on and it is even more amazing and you’re thinking ‘keep going’ and then suddenly it stops and you’re a bit, ‘…???’ You know that? That’s what we’re talking about today. And we’re talking about it in...

Start Here with the Two Realisations That Make All the Difference

Start Here with the Two Realisations That Make All the Difference

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